On an e-journey with generation Y

In memory of my dearly loved mother

April 2, 2008 · 18 Comments

 Mum

Hilda Dora Juers (nee Schurmann)

13/11/1930 to 29/03/2008

These posts have been about my ejourney with my students. However, every journey starts somewhere and mine started many years ago. It was Mum who helped mould me to make such a journey. I would like to tell you about her.

My much loved Mum died on Saturday, March 29th, but we did not realise she had passed away until the morning of Sunday, 30th March, when a doctor’s certificate was issued proclaiming that she was deceased. That now is her official date of death.

My Mum taught me a desire to become a life long learner. She loved and nurtured us as children, giving us confidence, a sense of adventure, a love of travel and showed us how to encourge and support others, showing only kindness. Despite suffering type one diabetes for 52 years, she rarely complained, always showed true grit and determination overcoming many of the afflictions that ailed her over her lifetime.

She had many interests and loved listening to sporting events broadcasts, keeping up to date with current affairs and was always watchful of the weather forecasts, due to her great love of gardening. Her life was a busy one and Dora was rarely idle – only hospital stays made her so. She was a fun loving person, who enjoyed socializing, making friends and entertaining. Her family was of prime importance to her and she loved the family social gatherings, get togethers and outings. Many happy times were spent travelling together, both domestically and overseas.

Diabetes led Mum to follow a rigorous diet, regimented daily routines and the suffering of many and varied health problems, various major operations and numerous hospital stays. Dora was determined to live life to the fullest and this has made her an inspiration to us all. She survived my Dad’s death for two years. Yet in that time she suffered serious, life threatening illnesses.  Again Mum overcame these to enjoy a healthier end to her life. She died peacefully in her home, aged 77 years.

My daughter has written this tribute to her precious Nanna.

My Nanna

My nanna was always caring,
My nanna was always kind.
Nannas like my nanna are very hard to find.

My nanna’s always helping,
She’d do anything you asked,
She’d always think of others, only putting her own self last.

My nanna is my idol,
I told her of this too,
“When I’m to be a nanna one day, I want to be a nanna just like you’.

Nanna you meant so much to me,
Its hard to have you part,
You’re now with Pappa in heaven, but you’ll always be in my heart.

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Her funeral took place today, on April 2nd, 2008, at 10:30am at the Lutheran Church in Warrnambool. Her coffin flowers are pictured below. The red roses symbolised the absence of her two grandsons, in London, who were unable to make it home for the funeral.

coffin flowers

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18 responses so far ↓

  • AllanahK // April 2, 2008 at 10:19 am | Reply

    I was thinking of you and your loss as my Dad passed away on 31 March eleven years ago now. The hole in your life left behind from the death of a parent can never be filled but shows us how much more we need to appreciate those of that generation that are left.

    My dear old Mum is in a rest home now and wishes for the same sort of passing that your Mum had.

    Take some time to heal.

    Arohanui

    Allanah

  • Fran // April 2, 2008 at 11:20 am | Reply

    What a wonderful life your mother had with such love from her daughter and grand daughter. Love will comfort you and she is at peace. You will miss her always but she will be with you always. Fran

  • Heather Blakey // April 2, 2008 at 11:33 am | Reply

    Dear Anne
    My thoughts are with you at this time. It is so hard to lose a parent, especially a much loved mother. Know that although she has left this earthly realm she is not far away and you will feel her presence constantly.
    my love
    Heather

  • espirit07 // April 2, 2008 at 12:19 pm | Reply

    Dear Anne, my heart is with you during this tough time. I think a loving mother passing has to be the hardest. Many blessings to you and your family. Genece

  • Sue Waters // April 2, 2008 at 12:41 pm | Reply

    Hi Anne

    I’m sorry for you and your families loss. I’ve been trying hard to come up with all the right words to say; but there never right ones. So instead I just want to say thinking of you.

    Sue

  • lois daley // April 2, 2008 at 12:56 pm | Reply

    Dear Anne,
    When my Mother Jessie Georgina died some 17 years ago I looked for a piece of writing to describe her ..like your Mother Dora my Mum was a garden lover spending many hours every day in her loved home in Port Melbourne …housework and cooking always came after tending her plants.
    I found this quote in a garden book I had bought her ………
    ” Gratitude”
    ” Let us be grateful to the people
    who make us happy
    They are the charming gardeners
    who make our souls blossom

    Marcel Proust
    Anne , You will see her in her garden when the roses bloom….she will not be far away…….

    Love Lois (Muse of the Sea) Wed 3.4.08

  • woodnymph // April 2, 2008 at 3:09 pm | Reply

    So sorry, Anne to hear of your loss. Know though, that as long as you have those precious memories, she will be with you.

    Vi

  • diane // April 2, 2008 at 11:06 pm | Reply

    Anne,

    What a beautiful tribute. You and your family are the living legacy your Mother leaves behind.

    She must have known how much she was loved, a very lucky lady despite her hardships.

    My deepest sympathy for your loss.

    diane

  • porchsitter // April 3, 2008 at 3:14 pm | Reply

    Dear Anne,

    I am so sorry about your mom. God bless her for all the lovely memories she gave you.

    Barbara

  • jodhiay // April 3, 2008 at 5:38 pm | Reply

    Your mother was obviously a lovely lady, Anne, and I love that you included your daughter’s poem in her tribute. My sympathies to you.

    Joanne

  • Sue T // April 3, 2008 at 11:20 pm | Reply

    Anne a beautiful way to share the memories of an amazing and obviously very important woman in your life. My mum was of a similar extraordinary nature- resilient, self effacing, energetic, life loving and full of mischief. She died after a long battle with cancer three years ago and your loss has brought back the powerful emotions we all go through with such a time. I think I am still processing the whole period and the ups and downs you will feel for awhile are part of the understanding of loss. I send my love and warmest thoughts to you and your family

  • Bill Gaskins // April 4, 2008 at 3:03 pm | Reply

    What a beautiful way to share with us about your mom! I would love to see her garden! My thoughts and prayers are with you!

    Bill

  • gailkav // April 4, 2008 at 11:45 pm | Reply

    Anne, your tribute to your mum is beautiful and moving. You were blessed, and so was she. Her love will be with you always.

  • murcha // April 5, 2008 at 5:28 am | Reply

    Soon after I wrote this post, my friend, dswaters (http://aquaculturepda.edublogs.org/) had shared this post for me to read in my google reader. I would like to place the link here for anyone else who may be interested. When learning gets personal … http://michelemartin.typepad.com/thebambooprojectblog//2008/03/when-learning-g.html

  • Sheryl A. McCoy // April 5, 2008 at 10:41 pm | Reply

    Anne, living is part of learning, and I am so glad that we don’t have to sanitize our lives. If we did, I would never have known about your mother. I would never know about you, your farm and your family. Your family is a great blessing, and your daughter’s poem was a sweet testament to her grandmother, her Nanna.

  • Vonnie // April 8, 2008 at 11:15 am | Reply

    Dear Anne,
    A beautiful tribute to your much loved and inspirational mum.
    I sympathise with you in your recent loss, having just lost my dear mum and my mum’s sister last month.
    Vonnie

  • Grace Kat // April 11, 2008 at 8:25 am | Reply

    I am sorry for your loss Anne. I see in the photo that you had three generations of women in your family – you are so lucky to have had a loving and energetic mother and she so lucky to have had a loving daughter and granddaughter. Memories can be the most wonderful aspects of being human. I know mine always bring me comfort and put a smile on my face when I think of my father who passed away in December 2003.

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